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Dear Scott: Is it Rude to Ask if My Coworker is Gay?

Dear Scott: Is it Rude to Ask if My Coworker is Gay?

January 30, 2018

Dear Scott, So I have been working at my current place of employment for around five years now. I won’t say the name but the official dress ...

Ask Scott: Some Finals Advice for the Weary Student

Ask Scott: Some Finals Advice for the Weary Student

December 12, 2017

Dear Scott, It's finals.  It has been a long and trying semester.  I could really use some studying tips and maybe a bit of advice on how to not ...

Ask Scott: An Ex Wants To Apologize

Ask Scott: An Ex Wants To Apologize

October 26, 2017

Hey Scott, Recently a very close friend had informed me that an ex-girlfriend of mine from a few years ago had contacted him.  He told me that she ...

Ask Scott: Size Matters, Right?

Ask Scott: Size Matters, Right?

October 5, 2017

Dear Scott, I'm insecure about my penis size...   I won't go into technical details, but let's just say I'm smaller than average.    When I hav...

Ask Scott: Adult Decisions

Ask Scott: Adult Decisions

September 12, 2017

I'm having a rough time.  I decided to have an abortion because I'm too young and it's not the right time. I'm a college student, and the would-be father (or sperm donor??) was a one night stand.

Ask Scott: Crushes

Ask Scott: Crushes

May 22, 2017

Dear Scott, It’s finally here; the end of the semester.  I’m not sure whether to scream with joy or cry with resignation, but either way, I made it....

Ask Scott: Genuine Compliments

Ask Scott: Genuine Compliments

March 10, 2017

So I have an interesting 'problem' if you will. This might be a weird thing to ask an advice column but here goes. I have noticed that when I'm talking to people and compliments are given, they usually hinder on looks or beauty. There's nothing inherently wrong about this, who doesn't like being told their hair looks nice? I just find it strange how that's what we focus on. I've been trying to find things to say that don't mention body parts of looks but I'm a little stuck. Do you have any suggestions?

Ask Scott: Addressing Trans People In Restaurants

Ask Scott: Addressing Trans People In Restaurants

March 3, 2017

Do you have any tips on approaching someone who is possibly trans or just dressed in a certain fashion and you are unsure of their title preference? As a waiter and bartender I usually am really good as I work in the LGBTQ community, but as all people do I have made mistakes -- and it's horrendous.

Ask Scott: Religion and Relationships

Ask Scott: Religion and Relationships

February 24, 2017

I'm religious and pretty involved in my church (not crazy involved like it runs my life), and my boyfriend refuses to believe in what I do.